Cruel vs. Mean: Know the Difference
By Shumaila Saeed || Updated on December 25, 2023
Cruel means causing pain or suffering intentionally, while mean refers to being unkind or spiteful.
Key Differences
Cruelty involves deliberate infliction of pain or suffering, often with a lack of empathy. Meanness, while it can cause hurt, is more about unkindness or spitefulness, often in words or minor actions.
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Cruel behavior often has a severe, lasting impact, possibly causing physical or deep emotional harm. Mean behavior, although hurtful, is generally less severe and can involve petty acts or harsh words.
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The intent behind cruelty is usually to cause significant harm or distress. In contrast, meanness might stem from a moment of spite, rudeness, or insensitivity, without a deep intent to cause serious harm.
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Cruel actions are often associated with a lack of remorse or consideration for the suffering caused. Meanness, while unpleasant, does not necessarily carry the same level of malice or indifference to suffering.
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Cruelty is universally condemned and often considered morally reprehensible. Meanness, though also negative, is seen as a lesser degree of hurtful behavior.
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Comparison Chart
Intention
Deliberate infliction of pain or suffering
Unkind or spiteful behavior
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Impact
Severe, possibly causing lasting harm
Generally less severe, more about words or petty actions
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Intent
To cause significant harm or distress
Often a moment of spite or rudeness
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Moral Judgment
Universally condemned, morally reprehensible
Negative but seen as a lesser degree of harm
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Cruel and Mean Definitions
Cruel
Deliberately inflicting physical or emotional harm.
The cruel punishment was widely criticized.
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Mean
Unkind or spiteful in behavior or speech.
That was a mean thing to say to her.
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Cruel
Enjoying others' suffering or pain.
It was cruel of him to laugh at their misfortune.
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Mean
Small-minded or petty in attitude.
His mean refusal to help showed his character.
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Cruel
Causing pain or distress by design.
The cruel trap was set intentionally.
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Mean
To be used to convey; denote
"'The question is,' said Alice, 'whether you can make words mean so many different things'" (Lewis Carroll).
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Cruel
Showing no concern for the pain caused to others.
Her cruel remarks hurt everyone's feelings.
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Mean
To act as a symbol of; signify or represent
In this poem, the budding flower means youth.
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Mean
To intend to convey or indicate
"No one means all he says, and yet very few say all they mean, for words are slippery and thought is viscous" (Henry Adams).
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Cruel
Causing or characterized by severe pain, suffering, or distress
Cruel treatment.
A cruel remark.
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Mean
To have as a purpose or an intention; intend
I meant to go running this morning, but I overslept.
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Cruel
Intentionally causing or reveling in pain and suffering; merciless, heartless.
The supervisor was very cruel to Josh, as he would always give Josh the hardest, most degrading work he could find.
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Mean
To design, intend, or destine for a certain purpose or end
A building that was meant for storage.
A student who was meant to be a scientist.
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To have the importance or value of
The opinions of the critics meant nothing to him. She meant so much to me.
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Mean
To have intentions of a specified kind; be disposed
They mean well but lack tact.
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Mean
Lacking in kindness; unkind
The teacher was not being mean in asking you to be quiet.
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Cruel
To violently provoke (a child) in the belief that this will make them more assertive.
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Mean
Cruel, spiteful, or malicious
A mean boy who liked to make fun of others.
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Cruel
Disposed to give pain to others; willing or pleased to hurt, torment, or afflict; destitute of sympathetic kindness and pity; savage; inhuman; hard-hearted; merciless.
Behold a people cometh from the north country; . . . they are cruel and have no mercy.
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Cruel
Causing, or fitted to cause, pain, grief, or misery.
Cruel wars, wasting the earth.
Cursed be their anger, for it was fierce; and their wrath for it was cruel.
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Cruel
Attended with cruetly; painful; harsh.
You have seen cruel proof of this man's strength.
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Cruel
(of persons or their actions) able or disposed to inflict pain or suffering;
A barbarous crime
Brutal beatings
Cruel tortures
Stalin's roughshod treatment of the kulaks
A savage slap
Vicious kicks
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Cruel
(of weapons or instruments) causing suffering and pain;
Brutal instruments of torture
Cruel weapons of war
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Mean
Something having a position, quality, or condition midway between extremes; a medium.
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Cruel
Used of circumstances (especially weather) that cause suffering;
Brutal weather
Northern winters can be cruel
A cruel world
A harsh climate
A rigorous climate
Unkind winters
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Mean
A number that typifies a set of numbers, such as a geometric mean or an arithmetic mean.
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Cruel
Willfully causing pain or suffering to others.
His cruel treatment of animals was disturbing.
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Mean
Means (used with a sing. or pl. verb) A method, a course of action, or an instrument by which an act can be accomplished or an end achieved.
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Mean
(transitive) To intend, to plan (to do); to have as one's intention.
I didn't mean to knock your tooth out.
I mean to go to Baddeck this summer.
I meant to take the car in for a smog check, but it slipped my mind.
The authors meant a challenge to the status quo.
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Mean
(intransitive) To have as intentions of a given kind.
Don't be angry; she meant well.
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To intend (something) for a given purpose or fate; to predestine.
Actually this desk was meant for the subeditor.
Man was not meant to question such things.
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Mean
(transitive) To intend an ensuing comment or statement as an explanation.[https://www.lexico.com/en/definition/i_mean%20I%20mean]
Your reasoning seems needlessly abstruse, complex, and verbose for me. I mean, could you dumb it down for my sake?
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Mean
(transitive) To convey (a given sense); to signify, or indicate (an object or idea).
The sky is red this morning—does that mean we're in for a storm?
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(transitive) Of a word, symbol etc: to have reference to, to signify.
What does this hieroglyph mean?
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Mean
(transitive) Of a person (or animal etc): to intend to express, to imply, to hint at, to allude.
I'm afraid I don't understand what you mean.
He is a little different, if you know what I mean.
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Mean
(transitive) To have conviction in (something said or expressed); to be sincere in (what one says).
Does she really mean what she said to him last night?
Say what you mean and mean what you say.
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Mean
(transitive) To cause or produce (a given result); to bring about (a given result).
One faltering step means certain death.
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Mean
(usually with to) To be of some level of importance.
That little dog meant everything to me.
Formality and titles mean nothing in their circle.
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Mean
Of a common or low origin, grade, or quality; common; humble.
A man of mean parentage
A mean abode
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Low in quality or degree; inferior; poor; shabby.
A mean appearance
A mean dress
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Mean
Without dignity of mind; destitute of honour; low-minded; spiritless; base.
A mean motive
It was mean of you to steal that little girl's piggy bank.
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Mean
Of little value or worth; worthy of little or no regard; contemptible; despicable.
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Ungenerous; stingy; tight-fisted.
He's so mean. I've never seen him spend so much as five pounds on presents for his children.
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Mean
Intending to cause harm, successfully or otherwise; bearing ill will towards another.
Watch out for her, she's mean. I said good morning to her, and she punched me in the nose.
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Mean
Powerful; fierce; strong.
It must have been a mean typhoon that levelled this town.
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Mean
(colloquial) Accomplished with great skill; deft; hard to compete with.
Your mother can roll a mean cigarette.
He hits a mean backhand.
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Having the mean (see noun below) as its value; average.
The mean family has 2.4 children.
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Something which is intermediate or in the middle; an intermediate value or range of values; a medium.
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The middle part of three-part polyphonic music; now specifically, the alto part in polyphonic music; an alto instrument.
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(statistics) The average of a set of values, calculated by summing them together and dividing by the number of terms; the arithmetic mean.
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(mathematics) Any function of multiple variables that satisfies certain properties and yields a number representative of its arguments; or, the number so yielded; a measure of central tendency.
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(mathematics) Either of the two numbers in the middle of a conventionally presented proportion, as 2 and 3 in 1:2=3:6.
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To have in the mind, as a purpose, intention, etc.; to intend; to purpose; to design; as, what do you mean to do?
What mean ye by this service ?
Ye thought evil against me; but God meant it unto good.
I am not a SpaniardTo say that it is yours and not to mean it.
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Mean
To signify; to indicate; to import; to denote.
What mean these seven ewe lambs ?
Go ye, and learn what that meaneth.
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Mean
Destitute of distinction or eminence; common; low; vulgar; humble.
The mean man boweth down, and the great man humbleth himself.
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Wanting dignity of mind; low-minded; base; destitute of honor; spiritless; as, a mean motive.
Can you imagine I so mean could prove,To save my life by changing of my love ?
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Mean
Of little value or account; worthy of little or no regard; contemptible; despicable.
The Roman legions and great Cæsar foundOur fathers no mean foes.
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Occupying a middle position; middle; being about midway between extremes.
Being of middle age and a mean stature.
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Intermediate in excellence of any kind.
According to the fittest style of lofty, mean, or lowly.
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Average; having an intermediate value between two extremes, or between the several successive values of a variable quantity during one cycle of variation; as, mean distance; mean motion; mean solar day.
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Mean
That which is mean, or intermediate, between two extremes of place, time, or number; the middle point or place; middle rate or degree; mediocrity; medium; absence of extremes or excess; moderation; measure.
But to speak in a mean, the virtue of prosperity is temperance; the virtue of adversity is fortitude.
There is a mean in all things.
The extremes we have mentioned, between which the wellinstracted Christian holds the mean, are correlatives.
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Mean
A quantity having an intermediate value between several others, from which it is derived, and of which it expresses the resultant value; usually, unless otherwise specified, it is the simple average, formed by adding the quantities together and dividing by their number, which is called an arithmetical mean. A geometrical mean is the nth root of the product of the n quantities being averaged.
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Mean
That through which, or by the help of which, an end is attained; something tending to an object desired; intermediate agency or measure; necessary condition or coagent; instrument.
Their virtuous conversation was a mean to work the conversion of the heathen to Christ.
You may be able, by this mean, to review your own scientific acquirements.
Philosophical doubt is not an end, but a mean.
By this means he had them more at vantage.
What other means is left unto us.
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Mean
Resources; property, revenue, or the like, considered as the condition of easy livelihood, or an instrumentality at command for effecting any purpose; disposable force or substance.
Your means are very slender, and your waste is great.
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A part, whether alto or tenor, intermediate between the soprano and base; a middle part.
The mean is drowned with your unruly base.
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A mediator; a go-between.
He wooeth her by means and by brokage.
If by any means I might attain to the resurrection of the dead.
The wine on this side of the lake is by no means so good as that on the other.
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Mean
An average of n numbers computed by adding some function of the numbers and dividing by some function of n
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Mean or intend to express or convey;
You never understand what I mean!
What do his words intend?
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Mean
Have as a logical consequence;
The water shortage means that we have to stop taking long showers
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Denote or connote;
`maison' means `house' in French
An example sentence would show what this word means
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Have in mind as a purpose;
I mean no harm
I only meant to help you
She didn't think to harm me
We thought to return early that night
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Have a specified degree of importance;
My ex-husband means nothing to me
Happiness means everything
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Intend to refer to;
I'm thinking of good food when I talk about France
Yes, I meant you when I complained about people who gossip!
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Mean
Destine or designate for a certain purpose;
These flowers were meant for you
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Approximating the statistical norm or average or expected value;
The average income in New England is below that of the nation
Of average height for his age
The mean annual rainfall
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Having or showing an ignoble lack of honor or morality;
That liberal obedience without which your army would be a base rabble
Taking a mean advantage
Chok'd with ambition of the meaner sort
Something essentially vulgar and meanspirited in politics
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Mean
Marked by poverty befitting a beggar;
A beggarly existence in the slums
A mean hut
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Used of persons or behavior; characterized by or indicative of lack of generosity;
A mean person
He left a miserly tip
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Mean
Intentionally unkind or hurtful.
She was being mean when she ignored his greeting.
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Mean
Showing a lack of generosity or consideration.
It's mean to not share your snacks.
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Mean
Harsh or unkind in expression or action.
His mean comments made her cry.
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Repeatedly Asked Queries
Is cruelty a personality trait?
It can be, but it's often a behavior rather than a trait.
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Can cruel acts be legal?
They can be, but often they are morally or legally condemned.
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Can mean behavior be a reaction?
Yes, it can be a response to anger or frustration.
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Is meanness always serious?
Not always, it can range from petty to quite hurtful.
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Can animals be cruel?
Cruelty is generally a human attribute, linked to intent.
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Can someone be unintentionally mean?
Yes, through thoughtlessness or insensitivity.
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Do mean people realize their behavior?
Not always; they may be unaware of the impact.
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Can one be mean to themselves?
Yes, through negative self-talk or self-sabotage.
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Is mean behavior tolerated socially?
It's generally frowned upon but can be context-dependent.
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Can mean behavior be corrected?
Yes, with awareness and a change in attitude.
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Do mean people lack empathy?
Not necessarily, but they may show less consideration.
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Are children capable of cruelty?
Yes, though they may not fully understand the impact.
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Is being mean a defense mechanism?
Sometimes, it can be a response to fear or insecurity.
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